23 year old Phoebe is in minors with
23 岁的 Phoebe
fellow student and boyfriend Matt after
在图书馆摔倒后与同学兼男友 Matt 发生了关系，
falling over in a library
and if there's two messages back to back
如果有两条连续的信息，
that's what's going on in my head
那就是我脑子里在想的事情，就在我们交往
literally a week and a half into the
一个半星期后，
relationship the first text message that
I ever sent to him I've had an accident
我收到的第一条短信 发给他我在大学出了事故，
at Uni I hit my head can you meet me at
撞到了头，你​​能在哪儿见我吗？我
only
immediately was thinking what on Earth
立刻就想
has she done I'm terrified and then I
她到底做了什么，我吓坏了，然后我
just turned up and it was just a little
就出现了，只是
cut on the nose and I'm thinking what
鼻子上受了点小伤 我在想我到底是怎么了，
have I got myself into
so we first met in first year of
我们第一次见面是在大学一年级，
University
um we were going to the same church
我们去同一个教堂，
everyone else around us was like asking
周围的每个人都问我，
like are you sure nothing's going on
你确定没发生什么事吗，
then I was like no of course not it's
我说当然没有
just Matt
只是马特
and then it's like so like Hang on we're
，然后就像这样，等等，我们的
getting a lot flirtier in how we talk
谈话方式变得更有调情色彩了
and yeah and that's when I was like hang
，是的，那时候我就想，
on this isn't the same as what it was
等等，这和以前不一样了，
before if you want when you come back
如果你想的话，当你回来的时候
from getting the glued on I can just
我只要
look at you and go oh you're so
看着你就能说，你真是
beautiful
漂亮
I was the one to ask her out did
我约她出去
Jonathan say which games he's going to
乔纳森说他会带什么游戏吗
bring
he did not I think we're playing a game
他没有我想我们在玩游戏
or doing a puzzle and I basically just
或拼图我基本上只是
went I'm gonna go for it and hope that
去试试看，希望
this works yeah Jonathan message me
这能奏效 是的，乔纳森周六之后给我发信息
after Saturday to say that he was happy
说他
for us oh that's so nice of him
为我们感到高兴哦，他真是太好了，
kind of cuddled up a bit more than we
比我们平时更依偎着我，
normally would and then like he went to
然后他
hold my hand
握住我的手，
um very gentlemanly
非常绅士地
slowly moved my hand into hairs went in
慢慢地把我的手移到我的头发里
for a kiss and then asked if I basically
吻了一下，然后问我是否
said I wanted to take this further
说我想更进一步，
how is it I told my mum before you told
为什么我告诉我妈妈之前你告诉你的妈妈，
yours
and she said yes
她说是的
Phoebe
菲比
[Music]
[音乐]
down there
在那里
take a seat I'm Emily I'm one of the
坐下我是艾米丽我是其中之一
nurse practitioners yep
执业护士是
right what has happened to you I tripped
的，你发生了什么事，我被
over a chair and hit my head on the desk
椅子绊倒了，头撞到了桌子上，
so that's mostly the nose region
所以主要是鼻子区域，
I like to think I'm a romantic but maybe
我喜欢认为我是一个浪漫的人，但也许
I'm not always the best at showing it
我并不总是最善于表达
I think it's the academic and me a lot
它 我认为这是学术界和我很多
of people like to bring up the fact that
人喜欢提起的事实
I know the first hundred digits of pi
我知道圆周率的前 100 位数字，有
any headaches no
什么头疼的吗？没​​有
3.14159
3.14159
265-35
265-35
897-93238 where were you were you where
897-93238 你当时在哪里，
is that uni so it was on campus
那所大学在哪儿，所以是在校园里
494-459-230-781-640-628-62089
494-459-230-781-640-628-62089
oh yeah
哦，是的，
I've been told there will be a black guy
我已经 被告知会有一个黑人，
yeah I don't think she lets on that
是的，我不认为她会表现出
she's impressed by it I always just do
对此印象深刻，我总是这样做
it and I think it's just a huge reaction
，我认为这只是一个巨大的反应，
of yeah okay
是的，好吧，
we don't share the same love
我们没有同样的爱
[Laughter]
[笑声]
I mean you're a little bit swollen where
我 意思是你的伤口处有点肿，
your wound is so I've suspected that my
所以我怀疑我的
nose has been broken before okay there's
鼻子以前被打断过，
been a bit of a bump there for a long
那里有一点肿块，已经有一段
time okay I think I'm gonna just send
时间了，我想我要让
you for a quick facial x-ray okay right
你去做个快速检查 面部X光检查好的
if you want to follow me I'll show you
如果你想跟我来我会告诉你它
where it prayers
在哪里祈祷
hi Phoebe my name's darsh I'm going to
嗨菲比我的名字是darsh我
do your X-ray today all right just have
今天要给你做X光检查 好吧，就看
your face is that correct the main
你的脸，这是正确的，
difficulty I had at University was being
我在大学里遇到的主要困难是
away from my family
远离我的家人
and what I want to get you to do is to
，我想让你做的就是
pop your chin up on here okay I was so
抬起你的下巴，好吧，我已经
ready to go and have my own life
准备好去拥有自己的 生活中
I just wasn't quite ready to not see
我还没有准备好
like my parents every day
每天见不到我的父母，
I wasn't the most exciting student I'll
我不是最令人兴奋的学生，
be honest I didn't really do The
说实话，我并没有真正做过
Nightlife thing
夜生活，
I had a lot of anxiety
我有很多焦虑，
but like it actually really manifested
但就像它实际上真的表现出来
as like actual physical illness at some
就像某些时候的实际身体疾病一样，
points like when it got really bad
当情况变得非常糟糕时，
I just really invest in myself in things
我只是真正地投入到
like church and like the Christian union
教堂和基督教联盟之类的事情中，
when I was at church and someone
当我在教堂时，有人
introduced me
向我介绍了这
that was it you can Shuffle back a bit
件事，如果你愿意的话，你可以稍微往后移动一点
if you want lovely cool you go that's
太棒了，你去吧，那
fine and then kind of throughout the
很好，然后在
next year that's kind of when we decided
接下来的一年里，我们决定
to become closer friends
成为更亲密的朋友，
I know I couldn't marry someone who
我知道我不能嫁给一个
wasn't a Christian so I wouldn't even
非基督徒，所以我甚至不会
considered dating someone who wasn't a
考虑和一个不是基督徒的人约会。 不是
Christian because it's just not really
基督徒，因为那真的没有
any point because I know it can't go
任何意义，因为我知道这不会有任何结果，
anywhere
um yeah so I never really
嗯，是的，所以我从来没有
intended to ever date anyone who wasn't
打算和任何不是
a Christian
基督徒的人约会 克里斯蒂安·
Phoebe you want to come back in see you
菲比你想回来吗待会儿见
later
your X-ray looks fine okay that's good
你的X光片看起来不错，好的，很好，
so it's just the wound really okay yeah
所以只是伤口真的好的，是的，
so lovely iona's going to do a wound for
可爱的伊奥娜要给我们做一个伤口，
us are you happy to drop your ass down
你乐意放下你的屁股吗
while we do this is that all right just
我们这样做是好的，
because it will make it it'll make it a
因为这会让事情变得
lot easier
容易得多，
I see my future with Phoebe as just as
我看到我和菲比的未来就像
getting married living together having
结婚、生活在一起、生
kids so all the all the usual stuff I
孩子一样，所有那些平常的事情，我
feel like I've just giving you a name he
觉得我只是 给你起个名字他
people pay thousands
人们
for me and Matt I hope that um it will
为我和马特支付数千美元，我希望这将
lead to a marriage and a life and family
导致婚姻和生活和家庭
kids pets oh you know amazing it's not
孩子宠物哦，你知道很棒这不是
that bad
那么糟糕
all right
好吧
I might have taught my romantic game
我可能已经教会了我的浪漫游戏
but
但是
I think I'm too bad she might say
我觉得我太糟糕了，她可能会说
otherwise but I think I'm okay
不是这样，但我觉得我还好，
good
actually doesn't look as bad as I
实际上看起来并不像我想象的那么糟糕，
thought it would
no offense
没有冒犯的意思，
I would say is love
我会说这是爱，
yes I would say it is yeah definitely
是的，我会说这是爱，绝对是
love
爱